Overview About Patience and Ikhlas

This is a conversation I've ever done with my beloved best friend ......
Story ..... about patience and sincerity.
Patient attitudes and Ikhlas it is the attitude that accompanies the process of an act from the beginning and when the experience, not the end of the problems / disasters and at that time we could not face it, then we say patience and sincerity in facing this tragedy.
Have we ever had at the time had a very heavy calamity, then we immediately say thank God?

At the time I did something with the death of my child when it was born, I was at the time immediately say thank God.
Midwives and nurses who handle deliveries wondered why I would like to thank God.
I explain, when the child was still alive ....... then Allah so know that I will not be able to take care of him, then Allah determines the best path for me to take it back immediately. And so I had no savings charity had conceived the child.
Not that I was not sad ....... but Allah has made me aware of his right to take the child and assured me that it was only entrusted his son alone. And especially he does not impose on anyone except to his ability, Subhanalloh.

One time, my fever is very high. I plan to take him to the doctor. Husband suddenly came out of the mosque, and asked how much money we had at the time. I say only twelve thousand dollars and I will wear it for the treatment of children. My husband said what if the money was loaned to her first return home because his wife will give birth.
I was angry ..... why do other people think of my husband more than her own son? but I do not want to argue, I threw the money kehadapannya grumbling, please take the money. He took the money of ten thousand, two thousand dollars to the cost of disisakannya my treatment.
With a heavy heart, I take my medication with money 2RB dollars to the cost, while for the medication to wear my health fund card, with the card and thank God I do not have to pay a dime to doctors and medicine.
In the afternoon ...... suddenly there came to my house guest, the guest asked my husband and gave a deposit envelope from someone ....................... .
After the guests left, I quickly opened the envelope, turned out to contain a hundred thousand, subhanalloh ..... I am grateful for giving his direct cry, and feel ashamed ....... because I have 10 rb sputter give money to help people , while He was soon back as much as 10-fold, Allohu Akbar!!

Of the two events, I was made aware of the sense of patience and sincerity, which turned out ..... patient is receiving disaster according to our levels, meaning that Allah gives it to us every calamity as He has ordained according to our ability. If we say that patience has limits ...... yes its limits set by Allah according to our ability.
Only we are often not aware of their own ability to always feel that we are unable to deal with a problem or unfortunate set of Allah to us.

Then when we are able to provide what we need for other people, that's where our sincerity, because if we do not then we are not going to willingly put out what we have even if it is excessive.
Given at the time so we do not need excessive and may be less meaningful than when we needed but still we give also. At the moment we feel it might not be sincere, but it's where the meaning of sincerity. As taught by the Prophet SAW, "give me the goods so we love to people in need". Ikhlas is a belief that behind every need we have rights of others. Natural Wallahu bishowab

Many say, that sincerity is soon forget any good deeds which we have done, probably yes ...... that we do not gain or calculate profit and loss.
But it would be different if we realize that in every rijki which Allah has given to us, then Allah opened the field for us to do good deeds for others.
We are given a healthy rijki then we have the ability to perform various activities pious charity.
We are given rijki food then there are others who deserve that we give to the food, our children, husbands, .... etc..

If we become aware that we exist in every rijki rights of others, we mempertahannkannya it appropriate for self-indulgence? The name hunks, then lawanya sincere is griping.
The size of what we provide are not a measure of sincerity, but beneficial for others it is a measure of sincerity (hehehe only Allah has the right judge).
When we leave the house in good health, and then we spread a smile to everyone around us, everyone will feel happy to have been greeted by the warmth of our smile. Sincere smile more beneficial for other people than administration that is accompanied by insults, naudzubillahi mindzalik.

This chat is not intended to open the story itself, but instead of that incident I became aware of how patient and sincere open something hard to do, but we can interpret it any time in any event we have experienced,
Yuk,,,,,, I hope we do not include people who are always desperate for His mercy and grace of Allah, keep the spirit of pious charity to improve the state of blessing and in ridhoi.